orgasm gap roundup

Orgasm Gap RoundUp ~ Spotlight #174

I think you really outdid yourselves with the entries for this prompt. You can find them here. Now on to the Orgasm Gap Roundup…

Zara Smith from RisqueViews blog choose this topic for discussion and also wrote the prompt post. Normally this means she would choose the round up. However, as I have been unable to get hold of her the team I work with on the amazing publication Tantalizing Tales has stepped in at short notice.

Here are the choices chosen by Mrs K and Liz Black and Posy Churchgate.

Orgasm Gap Roundup ~ Spotlight Choices

Why can’t a man love more like a woman? The Orgasm Gap By Sir Thomas

I truly believe the orgasm gap is caused by lack of communication between couples and lack of education about female anatomy. There’s so much great knowledge in this post and it’s refreshing to see it coming from a cis-man and the male point of view.

Take note males, the primary female sex organ is the clitoris, NOT her vagina…

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How to close the orgasm gap. By Submissy

I love the depth of her research in this piece and how she connects the orgasm gap in many heterosexual couples to their lack of communication. I completely agree in general communication is better between couples in a BDSM relationship, since it’s necessary to communicate while doing these activities.

While it won’t be for everyone, D/s has meant not just the closing the orgasm gap but eliminating it altogether. The increase in the number of couples exploring BDSM in its more mainstream variants makes me wonder if there is something wider reaching to what I have found to be the case on a personal level…

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Goodbye to Intercourse. By Mr More

The writer clearly demonstrates that over the last 30 years of his sexual adventures he’s been ensuring that he gave the pleasure of his female partners priority. Satisfying them ahead of his needs, he was being inventive during shared sexual activities – no wonder he’d experienced no concerns about orgasm gap! What Mr More also got us thinking about was the importance of trust, honesty and making sure there is no communication gap in our sexual encounters. Several of the other posts demonstrated good communication was key in avoiding ‘the gap’. Women need to say / demonstrate / seek what they want in sexual encounters and their partners need to be intuitive about body language and mood changes…

An retrospect, I certainly wouldn’t recommend this approach to anyone as a viable lifestyle option. But I honestly have no complaints about the way things turned out…

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Recommended Reading

I always love to add a choice of my own and this week seeing as I am part of the Tantalizing Tales team I won’t be breaking my own rules 😉

I am really happy to see Dancer in Chains back on the blogging scene. Her post – Orgasms Are Hard – is a fascinating read talking about her orgasm journey and hope for the future now she has learned a lot about her wants and needs. READ HERE…

Next Prompt

The next prompt from me is Time Travel – backwards or forwards – what would you choose?

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